Kid's Corner : A Carrot, An Egg and Coffee Beans

DOES ADVERSITY MAKE YOU
A BITTER PERSON OR A BETTER PERSON
- Libby Dube

A daughter complained to her father about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose.

Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil point. In one he placed carrots; in the second he placed eggs; and the last he placed ground coffee beans. He let them sit and boil, without saying a word. The daughter sucked her teeth and impatiently waited, wondering what he was doing.

In about twenty minutes he turned off the burners. He fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs out and placed them on a bowl. Then he ladled the coffee out and poured it in a bowl.

Turning to her, he asked. "Darling, what do you see."
"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.

He brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. He then asked her to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. She smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.

She humbly asked. "What does it mean Daddy?"

He explained that each of them had faced the same adversity, boiling water; but each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting; but after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

"Which one are you?" he asked his daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?"

Now my dear friend, how about you?

Are you the carrot that seems hard, but with pain and adversity, do you wilt and become soft and lose your strength?

Are you the egg, which starts off with a malleable heart? Were you a fluid spirit; but after a death, a breakup, a divorce, or a layoff, have you become hardened and stiff? Your shell looks the same, but are you bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and heart?

Or are you like the coffee bean? The bean changes the hot water, the thing that is bringing the pain, to its peak flavor reaches 212 Fahrenheit. When the water gets the hottest, it just tastes better. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and make things better around you. When people talk ill about you, do your praises to the Lord increase? When the hour is the darkest and trials are at their greatest, does your worship elevate to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?

"We are hard pressed on every side, yet not crushed;
we are perplexed, but not in despair;
persecuted, but not forsaken;
struck down, but not destroyed;
always carrying about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus,
that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our body."
(2 Corinthians 4:8-10)

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Thanks to Libby for this wonderful contribution.